Important Factors of Happy Marriage
The
Holy Prophet Muhammad P.B.U.H said
"Marriage
is my sunnah. Whosoever keeps away from it is not from me."
By
above Hadith we can understand how Islam emphasis on marriage. Islam not only forced to get marriage but also
emphasis on happy marriage. We can
understand importance of happy marriage in
Islam by the following advice to men of Muhammad (SAW)
"The best amongst you are the
best for their wives, and I am the best of you for my wives." (Tirmidhi)
Same
wise Muhammad also taught women to please their husband. He said
“Any woman who dies while her
husband is pleased with her, she will enter Jannah.” (Tirmidhi)
For
a happy marriage following are the very important factors
·
Trust
·
Not Point Out Finger On Partner
·
Accept Sense of Responsibility
·
Openness and Honesty
1.
Trust
for Happy Marriage
One
of the key factors of happy marriage
is mutual trust. Trust ties two individuals together and when it breaks,
relationship end up. If there is a lack of trust between married lives than it
would result in suspicion, anger and enmity and causes at last to
separation. So trust is very important in happy married relation and one should
also not break the trust of other.
Respectable
Imam Ali (A.S) said
"The best of belief is
trustworthiness, and the worst of manners is betrayal."
2.
Not
Point Out Finger On Partner for Happy Marriage
Never
point out finger on other if your partner made any mistake. When your partner
made a mistake, ignore his/her shortcoming so other ignore it too when you made
a mistake. So the best factor of happy
marriage is to ignore shortcoming of your partner.
Imam
Ali (A.S) said
"Ignore
the shortcomings and forgive the mistakes of others, just as you hope that God
will forgive your crimes and sins."
3.
Accept
Sense of Responsibility for Happy Marriage
A
happy marriage is not about living
with each other, it’s also about accepting sense of responsibilities. One needs
to change his/her sense of personal preferences, leisure time and giving
themselves to make happy each other.
Factors
in which people neglects their responsibility in married life
·
Lack of maturity.
·
No future planning of marriage.
·
Not ready to give themselves each other.
·
Lack of interest of spouse.
·
Irresponsible wife.
Generally a man responsibility is to fulfill
all requirements of home and his wife and woman has responsibility to look
after her spouse home.
Holy Prophet Muhammad
(S.A.W) said
“The woman is the guardian of her husband’s house and is responsible for it.” (Bukhari)
“The woman is the guardian of her husband’s house and is responsible for it.” (Bukhari)
4.
Openness
and Honesty for Happy Marriage
Openness
and honesty in married relationship is very important for happy marriage. It increases compatibility
between spouse and wife. When a wife and spouse share life moments with each
other like their past, present activities and future plans then they are
actually making a bound with each other that makes their relationships more
strong.
So
above are the most important factor of happy married life, practice these factors
in your life and make it beautiful.
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