3 Tips for a Successful Marriage
Everyone
wants to have a happy marriage life. But sometimes this blissful relationship
face critical situation which may end up in divorce which is not likeable act
in Islam. Marriage in Islam is not only a status of having husband and wife but
also making complete each other for sake of Allah, accepting responsibilities
and fulfilling rights of each other by keeping Allah’s fear in mind. Islam
gives us extensive successful marriage tips. In this article I give you 3 tips
for a successful marriage life.
“And
of His signs is that He created for you from yourselves mates that you may find
tranquility in them; and He placed between you affection and mercy. Indeed in
that are signs for a people who give thought.” [Qur’an: Chapter 30, Verse 21]
Are you thinking that what is the reason that
some couple fined tranquility with each other while others have
miserable life? Here 3 tips for a successful marriage life are given by
following on it; couples can find tranquility with each other.
1. Couples Love Each Other For Sake of Allah
What does
it mean that couples love each other for sake of Allah? It means that couple
loves each other so much that they want to live with each other whole life and
plans to live together with each other in Jannah. So they avoid the entire things
which are not likeable according to the teachings of Islam.
Your spouse
has love for sake of Allah when acts on following tips for a successful
marriage.
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Stopped you from having ill-will for anybody.
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Stopped you for doing backbiting about your
relatives, friends, colleagues or any person.
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Help you to have good manners.
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Want to see you more honest and guide you in this
matter.
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Help you to become more generous and kind.
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Help you to overcome your any bad habits.
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Helps you to become more truthful and trustworthy.
The Holy Prophet Muhammad S.A.W said
“Nothing is
placed on the Scale that is heavier than good character. Indeed the person with
good character will have attained the rank of the person of fasting and
prayer.” [Tirmidhi]
2. Couples
Should Grateful For Each Other
The most important tips for a successful marriage are that couples
should grateful for each other for their presence. The most complication in relationship arises
when people started taking for granted each other. We have to realize our close
ones that they are very important for us.
For tranquility in marriage relationship we have
to follow the Islamic path.
Holy
prophet Muhammad S.A.W said
Here there are
some reasons by which you should thankful for your spouse.
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For buying clothes for you.
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For providing you food to eat.
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For giving you roof to live.
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For being protector of your honor.
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Take you where ever you want to go.
3. Become Best Friends of Each Other
Muslim couples communicate with each other
both in good times and conflicts. In good times they share thing happened in
whole day, share jokes and personal feelings. In conflicts they try to talk
with each other and try to sort out issue. The couples should communicate like
Holy Prophet Muhammad (S.A.W) and his wife.
Aisha (Radi Allahu Anha) narrated that
“Allah’s Messenger (S.A.W) said to her: “I know when you are pleased with me or
angry with me.” I said, “Whence do you know that?” He said, “When you are
pleased with me, you say, ‘No, by the Lord of Muhammad,’ but when you are angry
with me, then you say, ‘No, by the Lord of Abraham.’ ” Thereupon I said, “Yes
(you are right), but by Allah, O Allah’s Messenger, I leave nothing but your
name.” [Bukhari]”
So by following our 3 tips for a successful marriage, every Muslim
couple can have a life full of tranquility.
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Following these tips you can release a lot of stress and present at your wedding with the best face. Remember that it is about you and your partner feeling good on such an important day. Wedding Photographers in Coimbatore
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